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Journey through the odyssey years
1 Most of us know about the phases of life which we label to parallel different
age groups and life stages: childhood, adolescence, adulthood, and old
age. We think of infancy before childhood and middle age before old age, with
each unique phase bringing its own peculiar set of challenges. These
challenges can be overcome by acquainting ourselves with them, such as the
child's need to learn, the adult's need to find the right career and build a family,
and the senior's need for support and good health care.
2 Interestingly, ideas about the stages of life are changing.
3 In previous times, people didn't have a solid idea of childhood as being
separate from adulthood. A hundred years ago, no one thought of
adolescence. Until recently it was understood as a norm that their induction to
adulthood was completed as soon as they graduated from college. They would
now find a sensible job which would lead to a career. Then during this career
they would start a family, ideal y before they turned 30.
4 Today we have an equivalent need to recognize a new phase of life that
comes after high school graduation, continues through college, and then leads
to starting a family and having a career, the so-cal ed odyssey years. Recent
trendsshowradicalchangesasyoungpeoplearefol owing a
different agenda. They take breaks from school, live with friends and often
return to living with their parents. Similarly, they fall in and out of love, quit one
job and try another or even shift to a new career. So, we need to recognize this
new stage, the odyssey years, which many now consider to be an unavoidable
stage in reaching adulthood.
5 People who were born prior to the 60s or 70s in the last century tended
to frame their concept of adulthood based upon achieving certain
accomplishments: moving away from home, becoming financial y independent,
finding the right spouse and starting a family. But that emphasis on stability did
not remain static. Today, young people are unlikely to do the same. During the
odyssey years, a high proportion of young people are delaying marriage, child
bearing, and even employment.
6 The odyssey years can saddle young people with enormous pressure to
move forward quickly. As the sole heir and focus of their parents' expectations,
hopes and dreams, some react with rebellious and prideful attitudes and
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behavior toward their parents. They often resent the pressure they're feeling
and keep a distance from their parents or even run away from home. Their
confusion comes from the difficulties to make parents understand them and
the fluid journey of discovery they need in this phase of their lives. To get away
from this confusion and upset, many young people resort to computer games,
iPods, iPhones, or iPads, to help distract them from their pain and stress.
7Likewise, their y
make allowances for a transition phase from student life to adult life, but they
get upset when they see the transition of their grown children's lives moving
away from their expectations and stretching five years to seven years, and
beyond. The parents don't even detect a clear sense of direction in their
children's lives. They look at them and see the things that are being delayed.
8 It's hard to predict what's next. New guidelines haven't been established yet,
and everything seems to give way to a less permanent version of
itself. There's been a shift in the status and balance of power between the
genders, too. More women are getting degrees than men. Male wages have
remained stable over the past decades, while female wages have boomed.
9Apart from anything else, this has had an implicit effect on
courtship. Educated women can get many of the things they want, such as
security, accomplishment, and identity without marriage. However, both
genders are having a harder time finding suitable mates to build their lives
with. Considering all of this, it's beneficial to know that even though graduates
are delaying many things after college, surveys show they still hold highly
traditional aspirations. For example, this contemporary generation rates
parenthood even more highly than previous generations did!
10This new phase will likely grow more pronounced in the coming
years. Nations around the world have witnessed similar trends toward delaying
marriage and spending more years than ever shifting between higher
education and settling down with a career and family.
11 Nevertheless, graduates shouldn't be deceived into thinking they can back
off simply because things have become more difficult. A large number of
people chasing relatively fewer opportunities can create strong competitive
pressure. So, from the outset, keep your resume professional and up-to-date.
12 To reinforce this essential message, success moving through the odyssey
years will come to those who don't expect to achieve their goals right away but
know that they must have the strength, capacity and confidence to endure over
the long term. If you're a little late with your goals, don't feel like a failure! Stay
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